In order to survive we cling to all we know and understand thus we label it realty but knowledge and understanding are ambiguous “the reality could be an illusion” all human live with the wrong assumption

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

3 Words

Today I want to write about three dangerous words which are involved in our daily life. Okay I do not want to play hide and seek with you all so the words are lie, manipulate, and rhetorical. These words can be used for good and bad thing and the user of these words are divided into three different type of user. If we look at the dictionary show the meaning of these words only used for the bad thing but the fact is these three dangerous words can be use for the good thing either. I will try to elaborate and discuss about it as best as I can and hope the result came we will not fall onto it.

First word is “lie” which means you tell something not true to other people. More specific something not exist but you try to prove that is exist or vice versa. I believe my readers know a lot about this word and I also believe we will or have lied to other people even for once in our life. There is no exception even you are good one but the reason you lie will judge you whether you are good or bad person.

“Lie for bad thing” it is not difficult to give a definition for that. “Lie” I already discuss the meaning above and now the word “bad thing” only left to give a definition. Bad thing is synonym to something worst happen. Ok, try we combine both of the meaning “lie for bad thing” it will come to this “you tell something not true to other people for something worst happen”. About the definition we have done so to make we more understand I give you an example “you tell your lecturer that you absent for class because you got fever but the fact you absent for class because you dating with your couple”. The bad thing is you leaved your class because to see you couple.

Now we turn to “lie for good thing”. Good thing means better thing or hope for better future. That means you lying to others people because you hope the bad condition become better. For example you are a father and want to help your son marriage because your son and daughter in-low had big fight so you come to them one by one and said to your son that his wife still love him after that you come to his wife and said the same thing so they can be together again. Another easy example you lying to your couple because you don’t want to hurt his/her heart.

Actually there is a reason why I put lies for the first place before manipulate and rhetorical. The reason is “lie” only used for stupid and uneducated person. Why I said that? Because the risk of lying is too high and if you got caught the people around you will not believe you again even you lying for good thing. When you lie it just same you put a knife at your throat. When you start lying you will always want to lie.

The second dangerous word is manipulation means you used true thing and modified it for your own benefit. Hehe, dude this word is the best even it is dangerous more accurate it is only dangerous for other people but not for the user. Sometimes you can not differentiate the word “use” and “manipulation” because both of the words apply the same method. I give you an example “you use a knife to peel an apple” I also can say that “you manipulate the knife to peel an apple” both of them is same.

Now I tell you how manipulation becomes bad thing. When you use true thing as your weapon and there is no one can prove and deny it fakes. The result is others people will accept what you said without questioning back. For example a cute girl or womanizer deceived a lot of guy, she manipulate her cute face to deceive the guys. Because the cute face is true thing so the guy just accept the manipulation created by the girl and the bad thing is the guy has been deceive. Guys please beware for this type of girl. Another example a case was happened 5 years ago a policeman from special branch (SB) disguise as ordinary guy to get information for a high profile criminal. You know how far the police went? He married with the daughter of the culprit. The police manipulate his marriage to get trust from the culprit lastly the culprit was caught by their own son in-low. The power of manipulation is very dangerous.

How about manipulation for good thing? Ok I just go through the example a guy he is a lawyer and he want to marry a girl who his girlfriend. He asks his parent to propose for him. When his parent go to see the girl, the parent question the girl what her job>?the girl reply she work as medical doctor and then the parents said agree because the girl works as doctor. That means the girl manipulate her job and the good thing is the couple wants to marry. Another example you use your degree to get the job that also called manipulation. You manipulate your own degree.hahaha.

Manipulation normally used by educated person because they can recognizes things that they want manipulate.

The last is rhetorical which mean is giving hope to a lot of people. This word is the word I most hate. When we talked about rhetorical it automatically involved with politic because both of them cannot be separate and when it involved with politic I became not interested at all. Politic is dirty, politic is manipulating, politic is lying, politic is unfairness and because of that I’m not plan to elaborate much about it. if you want to know much about rhetorical please ask the political science student because rhetorical is one of their study field.

I believe all of you think politic is about government and opposition but the fact in office also have politic. If you want promotion you must to be kind with your superior and sometime you need to buy him present also sometimes you need to treat their lunch and this the only way if you want to get easy promotion. One of my lecturer said “know a lot of people is better than know a lot of knowledge”. Nowadays only a few people will measure another people from your commitment. Bias will always happen. That why I hate politic. Hurmm, I’m not even touch about rhetorical.

Most of the rhetorical user is come from high standard person. Only a few people will use it. Ordinary citizen not involved at all with this term because it need to give hope indeed a lot of hope. For example hope for better future, hope live with peace, live without war, live with less crime, economic stability and etc. Those are hopes or maybe shit are given by the politician but never happen.

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