Don't give up

You need to proud about yourself
Maybe you body change but not your soul
You still same like you five years ago
You just need to change the way you thinking
Just accept what come to you
Sometimes Allah wants to test you
How you act
What you will do
Just accept it
Allah has given you much
Perhaps Allah took something from you
But Allah has given you a lot of thing
Be patience
Allah wants to test you again
Be patience
Don’t regret on what has happened
Allah has big plan for you
Be grateful human
The key of peace and happiness already in your hand
You just suffered from old scar
The scar will permanent
You need to go straight ahead with the scar
No matter how hard to forget
No matter how long you have hurt
No matter what risk need you take
In front of you
There is still a lot of problem you need to face
There is still a lot of challenge you need to cope

the pain you felt yesterday will be worthless if you give up right now

release your tension

Different people use different ways to release tension. Me as example when I tension I need to hear Muse song to release it. I’ll lock my bedroom and then I up the volume to the top and put the Altec Lansing speaker close to my ears and I sing together follow the songs. After I hear 5 or 6 Muse song my mind feel empty and I feel all my problem has solve. Normally, Muse songs I hear are muscle museum, hysteria, starlight, sing for absolution and the latest uprising.

Different to my friend, he told me when he got tension he will talk to his girlfriend and tell the problem to her and after that the problem just vanished by itself. Sometimes he said the problem caused the tension he just forgets it when he talk to his girlfriend. The women’s power. I said to him I can’t follow his way because I not have someone special in my side and he said I should find one. Hehehe. Nonsense, how can I add the problem that I already have? “The point is you need to tell someone when you got problem”, he added.

I’m just agreed for the half of his opinion. He said I need to tell someone when I got tension. Actually I have tried this way but believe me if you want to use this method you need to find someone you most trust. Despite of that, for me there is no one can be trust except your family. My experience I know a guy can be trust and I tell my problem to him and his name is N……N. He is good guy and religious type that was first impression me to him. I told everything to him obviously that was the time I most regret in my life. He used my problem to make jokes in front his friend. My impression to him has change, now he is only big fat clown to me. After that I’m not believe anyone again.

I have a friend he used very weird method in releasing tension. Many of my friends said he is weirdo guy but I like him. He is very relaxed person. He told when he got tension he will write the problem on a paper after that he burn it. Different people use different way.hehehe. The reason why he burn the paper he saw clearly his problem has been burn and the paper become dust the irony is he said the problem just lost in the wind. He no needs to think and worry about it again.

The ultimate solution only belonged to Islam. I have read a lot of book about releasing tension either it from west or east but never found the best solution. Neither music nor talking to someone or burning paper these not solve your problem perhaps you felt empty in your head but it just for temporary. When you use Islam as the cure you will feel permanent peace in your heart. The best book I read it came from Arabic land “La Tahzan”. This book are treasure for Islamic world it taught how to cope when you feel worry and sad by using Islamic ways.

Note: the ultimate peace only come from pure heart

Bob Marley

Last week I talked to my friend his name is….. . He told something that very surprising me. He said he wants to marry with Indonesian girl. Hahaha. This guy is nut. I asked him why he doesn’t want to marry Malay chick instead of Indonesian girl. He said his girlfriend dumped him, Ooo I see that is why he wants to marry with Indonesian girl. He added that Malay girl are all same always happy to deceive a guy. I told him not to judge other people because of one respondent.

After that, I asked him to tell the whole story why his girlfriend dumped him. With a sorrow face his told me that the girl is his first crush and he love her so much suddenly I saw his hand wipe tears come out from his eyes. He said the girl dump him because of the other guy approached her and that guy has handsome face and a rich person. I feel pity for him and asked him to stop the story to prevent him from crying.

I will try my best to persuade and convince him that what he felt is the normal story and he not the only one feel like that and please don’t feel sad. There is a lot of girl outside wait for you so just be patience. He replied to me “yes I know there is a girl waiting for me outside but that girl definitely not a Malay girl” haha. Once again I laughed but I laughed only in my heart I don’t want to hurt his feeling. Yeah it doesn’t matter whether is Malay, Chinese, Slovakian, European or Indonesian but the first rule is the girl must same religion with you.

His face has changed and he can smile right now. I told him not to think about the girl and stop cry for the girl again because when the girl know you cry for her that will showed you are a pathetic guys. The girl become proud herself because a guy has cry for her and it will make the girl never think about you anymore. What you need to do right know give full energy and pay a lot attention at your study. You must prove that you can do better when both of you not to be together.

That is not the first time I saw a guy wipe their tears because a girl I have seen it twice in my life. The different guy but share the same story. I wonder why a guy should cry for a girl. Now the condition shows one guy is equal to 8 girls (this equation is my observation from my class not the real fact). If you have been dumped by one girl that means others seven girls is still waiting for you. So why you still waste your tears for the things not even worthy.

BOB MARLEY: no woman no cry hahaha

3 Words

Today I want to write about three dangerous words which are involved in our daily life. Okay I do not want to play hide and seek with you all so the words are lie, manipulate, and rhetorical. These words can be used for good and bad thing and the user of these words are divided into three different type of user. If we look at the dictionary show the meaning of these words only used for the bad thing but the fact is these three dangerous words can be use for the good thing either. I will try to elaborate and discuss about it as best as I can and hope the result came we will not fall onto it.

First word is “lie” which means you tell something not true to other people. More specific something not exist but you try to prove that is exist or vice versa. I believe my readers know a lot about this word and I also believe we will or have lied to other people even for once in our life. There is no exception even you are good one but the reason you lie will judge you whether you are good or bad person.

“Lie for bad thing” it is not difficult to give a definition for that. “Lie” I already discuss the meaning above and now the word “bad thing” only left to give a definition. Bad thing is synonym to something worst happen. Ok, try we combine both of the meaning “lie for bad thing” it will come to this “you tell something not true to other people for something worst happen”. About the definition we have done so to make we more understand I give you an example “you tell your lecturer that you absent for class because you got fever but the fact you absent for class because you dating with your couple”. The bad thing is you leaved your class because to see you couple.

Now we turn to “lie for good thing”. Good thing means better thing or hope for better future. That means you lying to others people because you hope the bad condition become better. For example you are a father and want to help your son marriage because your son and daughter in-low had big fight so you come to them one by one and said to your son that his wife still love him after that you come to his wife and said the same thing so they can be together again. Another easy example you lying to your couple because you don’t want to hurt his/her heart.

Actually there is a reason why I put lies for the first place before manipulate and rhetorical. The reason is “lie” only used for stupid and uneducated person. Why I said that? Because the risk of lying is too high and if you got caught the people around you will not believe you again even you lying for good thing. When you lie it just same you put a knife at your throat. When you start lying you will always want to lie.

The second dangerous word is manipulation means you used true thing and modified it for your own benefit. Hehe, dude this word is the best even it is dangerous more accurate it is only dangerous for other people but not for the user. Sometimes you can not differentiate the word “use” and “manipulation” because both of the words apply the same method. I give you an example “you use a knife to peel an apple” I also can say that “you manipulate the knife to peel an apple” both of them is same.

Now I tell you how manipulation becomes bad thing. When you use true thing as your weapon and there is no one can prove and deny it fakes. The result is others people will accept what you said without questioning back. For example a cute girl or womanizer deceived a lot of guy, she manipulate her cute face to deceive the guys. Because the cute face is true thing so the guy just accept the manipulation created by the girl and the bad thing is the guy has been deceive. Guys please beware for this type of girl. Another example a case was happened 5 years ago a policeman from special branch (SB) disguise as ordinary guy to get information for a high profile criminal. You know how far the police went? He married with the daughter of the culprit. The police manipulate his marriage to get trust from the culprit lastly the culprit was caught by their own son in-low. The power of manipulation is very dangerous.

How about manipulation for good thing? Ok I just go through the example a guy he is a lawyer and he want to marry a girl who his girlfriend. He asks his parent to propose for him. When his parent go to see the girl, the parent question the girl what her job>?the girl reply she work as medical doctor and then the parents said agree because the girl works as doctor. That means the girl manipulate her job and the good thing is the couple wants to marry. Another example you use your degree to get the job that also called manipulation. You manipulate your own degree.hahaha.

Manipulation normally used by educated person because they can recognizes things that they want manipulate.

The last is rhetorical which mean is giving hope to a lot of people. This word is the word I most hate. When we talked about rhetorical it automatically involved with politic because both of them cannot be separate and when it involved with politic I became not interested at all. Politic is dirty, politic is manipulating, politic is lying, politic is unfairness and because of that I’m not plan to elaborate much about it. if you want to know much about rhetorical please ask the political science student because rhetorical is one of their study field.

I believe all of you think politic is about government and opposition but the fact in office also have politic. If you want promotion you must to be kind with your superior and sometime you need to buy him present also sometimes you need to treat their lunch and this the only way if you want to get easy promotion. One of my lecturer said “know a lot of people is better than know a lot of knowledge”. Nowadays only a few people will measure another people from your commitment. Bias will always happen. That why I hate politic. Hurmm, I’m not even touch about rhetorical.

Most of the rhetorical user is come from high standard person. Only a few people will use it. Ordinary citizen not involved at all with this term because it need to give hope indeed a lot of hope. For example hope for better future, hope live with peace, live without war, live with less crime, economic stability and etc. Those are hopes or maybe shit are given by the politician but never happen.

Note: if you scared of ghost so please don’t watch the ghost story